“Confidence isn’t walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, it’s walking in not having to compare yourself to anyone at all.” (Unknown) We all know we have the same 24 hours as Queen Bee, but do we have her confidence?! Confidence isn’t something that comes easy but imagine that feeling of being free. Confidence is liberating from what anyone has to say. Your glow is completely different when your self reassurance is at 100!
Self confidence is understanding that yes everyone has their own personal insecurities but knowing who you are and loving yourself is amazing! Poise is standing next to the most attractive person in the world and still stand tall next to them and acknowledge that ok they are attractive but “I am still me and no one is me.” There is a saying a flower isn’t worried about the one next to them blooming they will grow regardless so focus on - growing REGARDLESS. Stop focusing on who is doing what and why your body goals, career goals, family goals are not where you would like them to be. When you stop focusing on what others are doing and focus on your temple, mind, body, and soul things will come to you.
The mind will wander and play tricks on you but never allow those negative thoughts to get the best of your confidence. Never allow a spouse, family member, friend, friendenemy (we all have at least one of these get rid of them), to bring you down to the point where your self confidence is destroyed because of another person. When you stand proud in any and everything you will get noticed and respected. Everyone can see your self love. Allow yourself to shine you deserve it.