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​Does he make you feel like you are less than? When you have a disagreement does he shift the blame on you? Does he completely disregard your feelings and make everything about his feelings? If you answered yes then look into the term narcissism. There has been a lot of chat regarding narcissism. Many of us have dated a narcissist without even realizing it. There are also times where we may have become the narcissist (are you ready for that conversation?) Better yet we know family members or parents that are also narcissists. 

Here are some key things that narcissists tend to do:

Untouchable. Narcissists feel inferior to everyone else. They really in their mind think they are untouchable. Everyone should cater to them and no one else matters. They know everything and they will go against whoever and whatever to prove that they are right and everyone else is wrong. They expect praise and worship from those that they feel are beneath them. 

Blame Game. A narcissist will literally drag you through the mud and then blame you for the reason why they dragged you through the mud. They will always shift the blame on you. Gotta love it when they try to apologize and then the statement after the apology is to blame everything on you. They will NEVER take any accountability for any of their actions. 

Feelings what are those? In the mind of a narcissist the only one that has feelings is them. They will completely disregard your feelings. You can say "you hurt my feelings by doing this" and the narcissist will respond "you always hurt my feelings and you make everything about you, you are so selfish." They will literally ridicule you for having feelings and then will immediately become the victim. 

Love Bomb. So after they've "messed up" or even at the beginning a narcissist will love bomb you and make you feel great and then BOOM they drag you through the mud. They are clever as to when to love bomb you as well. Anytime they feel like they are at the verge of losing you they will then hit you with the love bomb. They will be "good" for a short period of time and then back to their behavior. This becomes a never ending vicious cycle. 

So there you have it! Now go on and reflect and analyze whether or not you are currently dating a narcissist, are you a narcissist, do you have people around you that are narcissist?! The first step to addressing an issue is admitting there is a problem. Ladies ensure to keep an eye open for these behaviors it is repetitive and never ending.