don't be that gal...

Ever tell a friend you’re going through something and their response is dull? Or their response was something about them to make your situation look better?! Have you ever been around certain people/friends/family and you’re talking to them about some of your goals and you just sense the low key hate?! Just when you thought those that are supposed to be in your corner really aren’t and you find this out the hard way. Ladies stick to people that are rooting for you and are supportive. ​

Society is so caught up in the next come up, or insecure about someone else winning that jealousy will overpower their entire being. It’s sad that in this era people are even jealous of your problems! Anyone that’s genuinely in your corner no matter what they are going through they will be cheering you on. A true friend knows how to set their feelings aside for a moment and listen to your triumphs, problems, or whatever it is you would like to share. 

​Ladies don’t be that person, don’t block your blessings because of jealousy, lack of support, or just because you are going through things. Know when to be the star player and know when to be the cheerleader on the sidelines. That balance is important no matter what type of relationship that’s in your in life. Listening leads to learning which in turn also leads to you being supportive but more importantly that’s how you count your blessings. Don’t be negative energy to anyone else and don’t allow negative energy to come your way. Always stay humble and stay blessed!