As the holiday season approaches and then Valentine's Day in February the pressure is on! Questions like when are you going to get married? Or when will you have a child? Or when will you have another one? Seeing family and friends during the holidays is great, you get to catch up and reminisce on old times but there are some topics that shouldn't be spoken about during the holidays! Whether you're single or in a relationship the pressures of society/family just pile up as you get older. So it's ok to brush those typical questions off.
During the holidays the last thing on the agenda is hmm when will the right guy come into my life? Or when will my career launch off? It's already stressful enough to deal with those type of questions all year long so it's ok to enjoy family and friends and keep all the personal battles aside for a few days. When approached with those topics of conversations nicely decline to talk about it. You're not wrong for just wanting to relax and take it all in. Personal space can be respected if the right approach is taken without offending your family.
Keep in mind that your time is coming! Your career will launch, the right guy will come into your life, children will come at the appropriate time just keep having faith and stay focused. All things will fall into place. Sometimes we try to rush the process and that's when mistakes happen so if family and friends say something just let them know you're trusting the process and they should too!
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