One person. It just takes one person to try to break your confidence. That person can try to break down a lifetime of self worth. That same person can try to bring you up but drop you even faster. Why give another person power over what they think is attractive or good enough?! There are over 7 billion people on this planet and all it takes is one to try to bring you down. Well listen here ladies don't allow that bull crap from anyone. Don't let a man, magazine, model, celebrity etc. tell you what you should look like.
Allowing someone else define you is a huge mistake. Pressures come from the media, society, men, women, strangers, family, friends but none of them are you. None of them know your inside daily struggle. Therefore none of them should break you down. Strength is beautiful. Being strong is powerful. You have that power over yourself. Mind over matter when someone tries to bring you down. Whether it be body shaming or anything related to how you look don't feed into it. Everyone has an insecurity or something they wish they can change about them but guess what you are beautiful!
The next flower doesn't stop from blossoming because the one next to it is "more beautiful" why should we live life worried about the next beauty? Ladies please ensure a man doesn't define your beauty. He shouldn't be verbally abusive and calling you ugly or telling you what you should look like. If so he should look like a thing from the past. Reality is we all have flaws and the amazing thing is we are all beautiful regardless.