Why is it that us women tend to settle for the person that doesn't make us feel like we are enough? We put up with the torment, negativity, and drama knowing we are so much better then our situation. We are the most selfless creatures on earth yet still end up hurting. We hurt because we settle for the person that isn't worth a text yet we give them marriage. There's no other way of putting it then loving yourself more then the person that is there to try to ruin you. We sometimes invite the devil himself to join us by entertaining the idea of what "could be" yet don't realize he's actually the devil.
Like Keyshia Cole says "I promised myself I would love me first genuinely." When we realize that we need us more then them that's when we will put our self worth first. It's so easy for us to lose sight of us when we focus on the wrong ones. The right one will know your worth, appreciate your worth, and support your purpose. But you must value yourself first. Ladies we have the power to draw the line and accept/decline what enters our lives. Don't settle and let a fling linger around. When someone makes us feel like we aren't enough in reality we are TOO much for them and they are intimidated by our capabilities.
Ladies say this out loud "I AM ENOUGH." Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "I AM MORE THEN ENOUGH." If at any time we have to question our worth while having a significant other around then its time to reevaluate that situation. As K.Michelle states in her "Can't raise a man" song "He wasn't raised right before you." Let's stop trying to raise a man. A queen doesn't need to prove to a king her worth he will already know her value.